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Apr 6 2009, 09:23 PM
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Hi, thanks for your response to my email.. im a single father of JONA and JASON (my twin boys) they are 2 years old now, my name is Arnaud Jean. Am the only son to my dad, my mum died of car accident when i was only 9 years, i grew up in a single family home with only my father to take care of me. I met the mother of my boys at our Ministry's Convention in France, she is Switzerland nationaly and i am France nationaly, we became intimate lovers after a period of time and she discovered that she was pregnant for me we both decided to see her parents and make arrangements for our marriage, but little did i know that she had been commited to another man that her parents wanted her to get married to, all these while she did not tell me of this, so when we came to see her parents, they were pretty mad at both of us, they wanted her to abot the pregnancy but she did not accept and they disowned her and we decided to make preparations for our baby despite what her parents said since she never wanted to get married to the man her parents wanted her to get married to.
We had to move over to Cameroon for missionary work because she was stressed up with the whole sitaution and wanted to be away. she gave birth to Alain and Calvin. and died when they were only 13 months old. I had to look for a nany to take care of the boys for all these while and i tell you, it is not been very easy for me, i guess you know what i mean with all the tress.. It is quite disturbing explaining all these since i have been disturbed all along, but i must tell you i have already made up my mind to give these boys for adoption regarding my present situation. I have considered all the options and i want my boys get the best in live in a home where they will grow up to have loving and caring mum and a dad, and i wish that is exactly what they boys will get in your house or wherever they go. It has been quiet here for us, but it is also hell for they boys also the climate here is not the best for the boys, in cameroon, they got just two seasons, 6 months of rainy and 6 months of dry seasons, i do not earn much money to provide the boys all what they need. To add to it, I am not at my best at this moment since my wife passed away i can hardly sleep, i can immagine all the sacrifices she made and i vow to get the best for the boys. This is what has made me to finally give the chanceto the kids to have a better life and a happy family since, i am fully aware that i can not give the two of them the life and the future that they deserve. I have attached pictures of Alain and Clvin in the mail, i hope you like them since they are wonderful boys and it has taken me over 4 months to finally come up with the decision to let them have the opportunity other kids have for a happy and loving family. As for the type of adoption. I will consider the adoption to be a close adoption, and it will have to be legaly done by a lawyer. I will also consider if you wish to have just one of the boys or both of them, it all depends on you. and you will have all paternity rights Please i hope you can respond to my mail since i am presently hoping and praying the boys get to have the opportunity i have been wanting for them. Deciding on adoption is extremely difficult, but i want the best possible life for these babies. thank you very much and i will be looking forward to reading from you soon. Jean --- On Sun, 4/5/09, Making Families <profiles@makingfamilies.org> wrote: From: Making Families <profiles@makingfamilies..org> Subject: Adoption To: bridyvirginie@yahoo.com Date: Sunday, April 5, 2009, 2:13 AM Hi, Are your in Alabama or New York? Jennifer makingfamilies.org |
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